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Women versus Men--Final Round to the Illuminati Tags: Illuminati Family Woman Men Relationships

Illuminati Use Women to Destroy Men
December 7, 2010-- Henry Makow

When I was young, there was a saying: "Behind every successful man is a woman."  History is full of examples, so this is not merely a cliché.  When the Bible speaks of the “older women training the younger women”, part of that training was to instruct a woman about how to empower the man in her life.  That instruction included respect and honor.   The clearest instruction was given in Proverbs 31.


Now, I know that it’s not popular today to even use the Bible in this context.  Most people are going to view the mention of it here as antiquated.  (That’s part of the program.)  I am not suggesting that anyone become a Christian, or some sort of “believer”, or even a “bible-thumper”. 


But, why not read the text?  What’s wrong with it if the principles of the Proverb are sound?  In fact, it could be applied to the “shoulds” of what both men and women “should” do if you read this list as attributes.   (Understand that the majority of the Book of Proverbs was written “to men” anyway; which is why Chapter 31 appears to stand out inordinately.)


The power of a proper marital or partnership bond is that the woman was to empower the man, her husband. How? By accepting their leadership. By being First Mate to their Captain.  Not only did women benefit and prosper from this arrangement, but were praised for it.  The woman, the man, and the children (the family) all benefited.  Nothing carried more pride and dignity than for a man to be envied by other men for having a wife and a life partner that supported her mate. In marriage, both then shared in the fruits of their achievements.  

Long ago, however, the Illuminati realized that this process can work both ways. Instead of empowering the men in their lives, women can emasculate them by challenging their power. By teaching women to usurp male power, the Illuminati created a new breed of feckless males incapable of concerted political action within their society.  Divide and Conquer. Once divided, get the women to “count on the State”, which are in reality, merely governments of the Illuminati.  The governments become the ultimate master of both the men and women, with the goal being to tear apart the fabric of society; the family.  History now shows that this is the quickest and most effective route to the total enslavement of any culture or nation.

Recently, I saw close up how this process works. A friend, "Garry," is broken up because his common-law wife left him. The split came after a "domestic assault."  He pushed her.  She wasn't hurt but she might have been scared. She called the police.   As a result, they were physically separated by law, and the relationship ended. I don't like this policy but it does end a lot of dysfunctional relationships.


Let’s face the truth about this behavior.  Kids, including girls push each other around.   Mothers will pull both boys and girls by the arm to get them to calm down.  They will yell at them to get them to behave.  And both parents will spank their children to apply discipline.  It has been said “spare the rod, spoil the child”.  (Again, cultures must have given some weight to these principle; since it has been used throughout history.)


Men push each other in face-offs and also in jest.  Animals push each other all the time, when it’s feeding time and in contest of dominance, which includes mating.  And, in human marriages, even the mating practices of some folks is very aggressive; depending on “preferences”.


Is there a limit to the physical nature of relationship?  Of course there is.  I am not advocating violence, but merely a closer look at what is happening to societies by looking honestly at the natural power struggle of male and female relationships.  Yes, occasionally men push women and women push men, and to pretend that humans should never “touch” or “push” one another is to deny the natural processes within relationships. 


But, there is more to this than any one single relationship.  Today, there is an agenda.  Particularly in America and in Europe, that agenda is to emasculate the man and replace his role with that of the “State authority” at all times, in order to promote feminized cultures and more “feminine” men.  And although homosexuality is touted as a “natural process”, on a purely percentage basis homosexuality among men is on a very rapid rise.  These percentages are exhibited through the escalating number of HIV/AIDS cases, which in the past 5 years, are now largely unreported due to new federal HIPAA regulations and “don’t ask--don’t tell” policies.


Has the agenda worked?  Absolutely.
She had the power and was constantly bucking for more. He felt guilty for being resentful and angry about it.  He was sorry for pushing her and thought his anger was a terrible thing. This reflects his indoctrination.  His striking out was a natural result of an untenable situation, which began when he brought the woman into his home to try to build their marriage.

He related a Jane Goodall documentary about chimpanzees to me. The male chimps will sometimes go haywire, screaming and yelling and throwing things. The women and children cower in fear.  Then the storm passes and they're all nurturing and welcoming again.  He felt that as a male, he was like the chimps. He had this evil demon within him.

"You've got it all wrong," I said. "Those male chimps were asserting their dominance. Once they did that, they could go back to being loving husbands and fathers. Don't believe what the counselors tell you. You're not dangerous. A man has a right to be master of his domain.  This was not supposed to be a contest of wills.  You didn’t set it up to be that way, she did.  So stop beating yourself up."
This all began because Garry had felt he had no home. His ex-wife had insisted that her 20-something daughter live with them.  The wife had her way in spite of Garry's objections. The daughter was a perfectly trained American girl and made sure that if she was miserable, then everyone around her was miserable. 


Being 20-something and bored and undisciplined, as most 20-somethings in the America are today; being miserable is “normal”.  And, in today’s world, a 20-something young girl making others miserable, which in this instance was most of the time; is also “normal”.  But, it was Garry's house and the woman and daughter lived rent-free.  Garry was doing everything he could to make his house a home for the ex-wife and daughter to enjoy and be comfortable in; only to be constantly berated by both.

What was the primary problem?  Garry had needed to be firm at the outset.  "Neither of you will live here; except under the conditions that I agree to."  


Instead, however, he went to a men's group called "Evolve" to learn to "deal with his anger."  And what he found was the same indoctrination program…it was all "shame and blame" the man. He needed to “control his anger” and be more accommodating. He was so impressed with “Evolve” group that he got his ex-wife to attend the women's chapter of the same government-funded agency.

There, once again, the message was designed to “empower” women and get them to dominate the men. "Women are an oppressed minority. Rise up against those evil males."  (This is modern Communist 'consciousness raising' and is designed to get “the home” dependent on the “STATE” for implementing the State’s “how to have a good functional home environment” program.  The doctrine is outlined in SILENT WEAPONS FOR QUIET WARS.)

After months of attending this government-funded agency group “think tank”, the ex became very argumentative, especially when drinking.   There was a forced and enforced separation.  Then came restraining orders.  After that, she had him arrested for driving by to look at his house.  And, this is his house mind you.  He became a prisoner to the “system”, with no rights.  But, so did she.  Just another home incapable of reconciliation due to “current norms of the society” and government “help”.


To her credit, she eventually moved out. But all the furniture was hers. She had forced him to get rid of his furniture. Now he's rattling around an empty house trying to rebuild his life. He let his friendships lapse and now spends most of his time alone.

Garry is a mild mannered and capable 55-year-old man. But when he related to me what his ex-wife had done, his body language was that of a child.  He looked like a defeated man.  Not capable and not vibrant.  Any man who is ruled by a woman becomes a child or a woman.  This is the agenda.


You probably know someone like Garry. If you don't, get a movie called "Flannel Pajamas." The writer-director Jeff Lipsky tells the story of his marriage. Compare Jeff at the beginning and the end. At the beginning, he is powerful and generous. At the end, he is a mouse. He gave away his power and now she didn't love him anymore. Women lose interest in men who try to buy their love, or love in a self-negating way.   


A man might lose a relationship by asserting the normal male dominance, but let a woman “brow beat” a man; and that man loses anyway.  Women don’t want a drunken abuser that beats them silly every other weekend, but whether women will admit it or not, they want a powerful, successful male figure in their lives.  Heterosexual relationships are about the exchange of female (worldly) power for male power expressed as love. Men want respect. Women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two, sealed by exclusive sex.

The Illuminati have sabotaged this exchange by exaggerating woman's power and diminishing man's. Men are brainwashed to think romance and sex are the sin qua non for happiness. Many men become paralyzed, unable to approach a desirable woman.


And then, most times too late in their lives, men learn that the real benefit to a man of having the right woman, that supportive and loving true partner; is exaggerated by a factor of five when the male-female relationship is in proper order.  This is true of all men of prominence; Napoleon, John Adams, George Washington.  In fact, in might be worthwhile to read of such communications between such men and women when “they have it figured out”.

Love Letters Of Great Men And Women: From The Eighteenth Century To The Present Day

Paradoxically, this return to reality enables a man to secure female companionship.  Equally as paradoxical, this type of woman is happier because it adds a nurturing nature to the relationship. Heterosexual relationships are about unity and synergy. This is called "courtship" i.e. proving that his aims are worth supporting and he will do his best to protect her. When both the man and woman trust in the relationship, itself; she augments his power by adding her power to the relationship.  


To their credit, women are attracted to men with self respect.  If he doesn’t respect and protect himself, especially against any attempts that some women might make to find a “chink in his armor”, then he will not be respected due to his failure to protect himself.  This is subtle part of courtship, but if a woman sees that he cannot protect himself; then she believes that he will not try to protect her. 


But, there are extremes to this “testing” process and Garry’s ex took it past the extreme.  It was not based on unity or synergy.  It was not in Garry’s best interest, and ultimately not in the ex’s best interest.  When the testing is proper and complete on both sides; this creates the heterosexual contract; the power for love.  


Of course, the contract is voided if he doesn't keep his end of the bargain.  Thus he will consult with her on matters of importance.  Depending on mutual rapport and competence, power might be divided or delegated.


Whether men or women like it, clichés happen due to societal truisms.  A “truism” that has been cultural prevalent for centuries is that “nice guys finish last”.  Men should project the power.  There is nothing wrong with “doing nice things” for your mate.  There is nothing wrong with acting as a partner and consulting each other about what it is that you both want to contribute to life and to each other. 


A woman can have power or love. But she can't have both. This is the litmus test.  Better that you “lose” at this than the Illuminati win.  You will find yourself distracted and your life in more turmoil than you can imagine.    They have more time, money, and think tank groups than you; and are working on many more ways besides the male-female relationship to destroy elements of mankind.


Live by your wits and keep your emotional life stable.  Male “weakness” is a catalyst for failure.  A relationship with a woman may be “doomed” from the outset for many reasons.  But, it is rare that a man can show weakness.  As soon as they do, most relationships are doomed.  Someone has to be the ultimate decision maker in the male-female partnership, it is should be the one that is more lovingly rational but tempered with environmental controls.  


So, if you want to be a “great man” then find a “great woman” that will be behind you and support you.  You should establish your status as a man from the start if you want a rational and controlled household.  If the woman is overly contentious and not agreeable, then move on.  History is in your favor and you'll save yourself a lifetime of grief.



Women think that the State has “given them more power”.  Women think that the “women’s lib and the women’s movement” have given them more power.  In the beginning; yes, this may have been true. 


Was some of it needed?  Yes, this is doubtlessly true as well.  But in the end, the divorce rate and number of broken homes has become a tragedy.  The number of children that have suffered from this tragedy has had devastating consequences to the fabric of both American and European culture…i.e. the family.   There is not less dysfunction and abuse in the home because of this. There is more. 


The agenda was to garner more State power and pass more government regulations; which was accomplished.  And who controlled that agenda.  The Illuminati.  Yes….(foreign) men.  


So, in the end women; you are still being controlled by men. This time, not just to the destruction of your families; your children, and the man in your life, but to your own destruction, as well.  Congratulations.   You “think” you won a battle, but in reality; you lost the War.


It wasn’t the man “in your life” that was trying to “control you”.  It was the “foreign lovers” that you allowed into your mind, thinking that governments (the other men) were there to help or “protect you”.  I know that this will be an unpopular opinion, but it is one that is thousands of years old as history has repeated itself with this simple “bible” phrase: “SEE ISRAEL, YOU DESTROYED YOURSELF.”


It is the tendency, now, to blame men.  This means All Men.  But, this Bible phrase was not written “just for the men”; it was written for the women, too.  It was written thousands of years ago as a warning to take responsibility for yourself and your own actions. 


Stop “buying the program” and tearing down the men in your life.  Isn’t is time to start empowering them, instead of empowering the “other men”?  Isn’t it time to take the responsibility of true womanhood?






DISCLAIMER: This document is not intended to be a “slam” against women.  In fact, being an equal opportunist and a provider of information and insight into Social Contracts and the Destruction of Social Order; I have been and will be providing additional information into the “political failures of sociey” and how both men and women have been used to destroy each and their own children…The Family Unit.  For proof of the existence of the “program”; suggested reading is SILENT WEAPONS FOR QUIET WARS.  Here is an excerpt and the web-link:

“In order to achieve a totally predictable economy, the low-class elements of society must be brought under total control, i.e., must be housebroken, trained, and assigned a yoke and long-term social duties from a very early age, before they have an opportunity to question the propriety of the matter. In order to achieve such conformity, the lower-class family unit must be disintegrated by a process of increasing preoccupation of the parents and the establishment of government-operated day-care centers for the occupationally orphaned children.  The quality of education given to the lower class must be of the poorest sort, so that the moat of ignorance isolating the inferior class from the superior class is and remains incomprehensible to the inferior class. With such an initial handicap, even bright lower class individuals have little if any hope of extricating themselves from their assigned lot in life. This form of slavery is essential to maintain some measure of social order, peace, and tranquility for the ruling upper class.”


“It is by this process that partial differential and difference matricesare discovered that define the family household and make possible its evaluation as an economic industry (dissipative consumer structure).  Then the response of the household to future shocks can be predicted and manipulated, and society becomes a well-regulated animal with its reins under the control of a sophisticated computer-regulated social energy bookkeeping system.”


Table of Strategies

Do this:                                            To get this: 
Keep the public ignorant                            Less public organization  
Maintain access to control points                   Required reaction to outputs (prices,sales) 
for feedback             
Create preoccupation                                Lower defenses 
Attack the family unit                              Control of the education of the young  
Give less cash and more credit and doles            More self-indulgence and more data 
Attack the privacy of the church                   Destroy faith in this sort of government 
Social conformity                                   Computer programming simplicity 
Minimize the tax protest                            Maximum economic data, minimum  
                                                    enforcement problems 
Stabilize the consent                               Simplicity coefficients 
Tighten control of variables                        Simpler computer input data --  
                                                    greater predictability 
Establish boundary conditions                      Problem simplicity / solutions of 
                                                    differential and difference equations 
Proper timing                                       Less data shift and blurring 
Maximize control                                    Minimum resistance to control 
Collapse of currency                                Destroy the faith of the American  
                                                    people in each other. 


“As in other human social schemes, one form or another of intimidation (or incentive) is essential to the success of the draft. Physical principles of action and reaction must be applied to both internal and external subsystems. To secure the draft, individual brainwashing/programming and both the family unit and the peer group must be engaged and brought under control.”

Factor II - Father

The man of the household must be housebroken to ensure that junior will grow up with the right social training and attitudes. The advertising media, etc., are engaged to see to it that father-to-be is pussy-whipped before or by the time he is married. He is taught that he either conforms to the social notch cut out for him or his sex life will be hobbled and his tender companionship will be zero. He is made to see that women demand security more than logical, principled, or honorable behavior.

Factor III - Mother

The female element of human society is ruled by emotion first and logic second. In the battle between logic and imagination, imagination always wins, fantasy prevails, maternal instinct dominates so that the child comes first and the future comes second. As the transition becomes more difficult to manage, the family unit must be carefully disintegrated, and state-controlled public education and state-operated child-care centers must be become more common and legally enforced so as to begin the detachment of the child from the mother and father at an earlier age. Inoculation of behavioral drugs [Ritalin] can speed the transition for the child (mandatory). Caution: A woman's impulsive anger can override her fear. An irate woman's power must never be underestimated, and her power over a pussy-whipped husband must likewise never be underestimated.

Factor IV - Junior

The emotional pressure for self-preservation during the time of war and the self-serving attitude of the common herd that have an option to avoid the battlefield - if junior can be persuaded to go - is all of the pressure finally necessary to propel Johnny off to war. Their quiet blackmailings of him are the threats: "No sacrifice, no friends; no glory, no girlfriends."

Factor V - Sister

And what about junior's sister? She is given all the good things of life by her father, and taught to expect the same from her future husband regardless of the price.

Factor VI - Cattle

Those who will not use their brains are no better off than those who have no brains, and so this mindless school of jelly-fish, father, mother, son, and daughter, become useful beasts of burden or trainers of the same.


Relevant Quotes

From the movie LORD OF THE RINGS: THE TWO TOWERS; conversation between Aragorn (the true king) and Eowyn (daughter of the King of Rohan)

Aragorn: You have some skill with a blade.
Eowyn: The women of this country learned long ago, those without swords can still die upon them. I fear neither death nor pain.
Aragorn: What do you fear, my lady?
Eowyn: A cage. To stay behind bars until use and old age accept them and all chance of valor has gone beyond recall or desire.
Aragorn: You are a daughter of kings, a shield maiden of Rohan. I do not think that will be your fate.


Ancient Maxim:

Cowards die a thousand deaths.  The valiant taste of death but once. – William Shakespeare


Real Life Example:  Joan of Arc

“I am not afraid…I was born to do this.”  Joan of Arc


“I would rather die than do something which I know to be a sin, or to be against God's will.”  Joan of Arc


“One life is all we have and we live it as we believe in living it. But to sacrifice what you are and to live without belief, that is a fate more terrible than dying.”

"Go forward bravely. Fear nothing. If you will go forward like a man, you shall have your whole Kingdom!"
~ Joan of Arc to King Charles VII after the coronation

Joan of Arc on her Voices

"When I was thirteen, I had a voice from God to help me to govern myself. The first time, I was terrified. The voice came to me about noon: it was summer, and I was in my father's garden. I had not fasted the day before. I heard the voice on my right hand, towards the church. There was a great light all about."


Additional Quotes:

“Thinking is easy, acting is difficult, and to put one's thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in the world.”

“We do not have to visit a madhouse to find disordered minds; our planet is the mental institution of the universe.”

“If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that.”

“Behavior is a mirror in which everyone displays his own image”

*     Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul.”  Douglas MacArthur

“People grow old only by deserting their ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up interest wrinkles the soul. You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear; as young as your hope as old as your despair. In the central place of every heart there is a recording chamber. So long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer and courage, so long are you young. When your heart is covered with the snows of pessimism and the ice of cynicism, then, and then only, are you grown old. And then, indeed as the ballad says, you just fade away.”  Douglas MacArthur

“There is no security on this earth; there is only opportunity.”  Douglas MacArthur

“Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.”  Plato

“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”  Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.”  Oprah

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